Tuesday, August 28

Wedding Checklist

Jenny and I had the chance to do a bulk of the wedding planning in Toronto before she left for Vancouver on Saturday. I am pretty happy about our progress. It was a busy two weeks of running around while she was in town, but I feel we are well ahead of the game... well, at least we survived that meeting my mom "called" in regards to the wedding. Jenny and I were more prepared going into that meeting than my mom was.

Here are the details of our wedding so far.

Date: Saturday, May 24th, 2008
Place: Logos Baptist Church (Miliken)

Toronto Reception: May 24th @ New Century Palace Restaurant

Vancouver Reception: May 31st, location TBD

Wedding Party:
Bridesmaids: Robyn Mulvena, Annie Szeto & Angie Tang
Groomsmen: Evan Chu, Genuine Lam & Jonathan Nip

  • Pastors and officiant are booked
  • Pre-marital counselling arranged
  • Colour scheme determined, bridesmaid dresses picked out and taken care of
  • Found help for decoration, photography, wedding cake, florist, and ushers
  • Found traditional gown and attire for the tea ceremony
  • Got a good selection of bridal gowns to choose from, just need second professional opinion
Oh, I'm so excited!!!

Monday, August 27

Nepal Slashes Rates for Climbing Everest

I have preached about the sacrifice and the cost of climbing Mount Everest.... but look, Nepal will be reducing the rates to climb Mount Everest by up to 70%. The bad news is that you’ll have to climb during autumn and winter, so plan on only going partway up or at least tell your family they’ll have to host your funeral without a body. Nepal regularly charges about $70,000 per team for a permit to climb Mount Everest, and so far no teams are planning on climbing in autumn or winter. I’m a bargain shopper—they say it’s more dangerous in winter, but I’m sure it’ll be fine.

Sunday, August 26

Harry Potter and Wilderness Survival

Since I started reading Harry Potter a few weeks ago (thanks Jenny & Phivan), I came across an article on how the average witch or wizard would cope in the backcountry with nothing but a wand. It only refers to spells/charms that actually come up in the books, because you could speculate just about anything.

Navigation: Harry does use a spell in "Goblet of Fire" which helps him to find his way through a maze by pointing his wand north. So basically you'd have a compass. Good start.

Warmth: Wands are used for starting fires throughout the books, so given some wood to burn warmth would not be a problem.

Rain Gear: At one point, Hermione puts a spell on Harry's glasses so that they'll repel water during a Quiddich match. If you put the same spell on your clothes, you could theoretically walk in the rain without getting wet.

Food: This is tougher. As far as the books suggest, you can't just conjure food out of thin air. I'd suggest finding a river with fish in it, and then stunning the fish so you can grab them. Or the "impedimentia" jinx would stop them from being able to swim away. Also, you can use an engorgement spell to make things bigger, so a few edible mushrooms or berries found by the trail could be increased in size to make a decent feed.

Water: There are moments when wizards have water spew forth from their wands in the books, so I guess as long as that water is clean there's no need to carry or filter any. Which is good, because I haven't heard of any anti-Giardia spell.

SOS: This one's easy. From their first year in school the young witches and wizards learn to send sparks into the air from their wands to call for help.

Of course, if an adult wizard were lost in the woods, he could simply disapparate and show up back at home. But then, that would be cheating!

Saturday, July 28

Engaged at 1685 meters above sea level!!!

Dear beloved brother and sisters,

Thank for your prayers and encouragements over the past few months. I am excited to announce that Jenny and I got engaged on July 24th, 2007.

Due to construction of the highway near sea level, Jenny and I were forced to attempt a more difficult ascent up the mountain. Jenny and I spent seven hours hiking up Brunswick Mountain. The hike was grueling; we passed through the land of giant slugs, swamps of flying insects, and we spent the last 200m ascent on our hands and knees scrambling up a rock slide. At times it was discouraging due to the cloud covers on the majority of the climb and the difficulty of the ascent. I had thoughts of postponing the proposing due to the conditions but I knew you were all praying for me so I turned to God’s leading. And praise the Lord as we summit Brunswick Mountain we were greeted with clear blue sky. The sky cleared the moment we reached to top and I took the cue from the Lord. We were treated with the majestic view of the coastal mountains north of Vancouver.

I told Jenny that I want God's majestic creation to witness this occasion and at that I got down on my knees and proposed. Jenny managed to whisper a “yes” and the rest is history. :-)

Thank again for all your prayers and for allowing me to share this wonderful chapter of my life with you all. Feel free to bombard me with more questions when I am back in Toronto with Jenny in a few weeks.


Blessings,

Joel & Jenny

Saturday, June 23

First-born child reaps IQ advantage

From the Toronto Star:

Study finds the eldest scores 2.3 points higher than next sibling in line



health reporter

If you've spent a lifetime losing arguments to your older brother or sister, there's likely a good reason for it.

Chances are they really are a little smarter than you.

A study of more than 240,000 Norwegian teenagers says that first-born children are, on average, 2.3 IQ points more intelligent than the next kid in line.

And study author Dr. Petter Kristensen said in an interview that each successive child is likely to be a little less smart than the one before.

The research, published today in the journal Science, drew its data from male Norwegian army conscripts aged 18 and 19. In Norway, almost all male teenagers are required to perform military service and IQ tests are mandatory. It showed the average IQ of the first-born men was 103.2 compared with 101.2 for second-borns and 100 for third-borns.

Kristensen says earlier research showed the same intelligence differences in female siblings.

The Norwegian study also showed second-born men who had an older sibling die in infancy had an average IQ of 102.9 while those that had two elder siblings die had an average IQ of 102.6, still higher than second and third-borns.

"The study provides evidence that the relation between birth order and IQ score is dependent on the social rank in the family and not birth order as such," the researchers write in Science.

The Norwegian data does not shed light on why social rank matters, although there are several theories.

First among them is that the sheer amount of attention parents can shower on first-borns is diluted as each new child arrives, says Kristensen, a professor at Norway's National Institute of Occupational Health.

"When number two (or three) comes, there will be sharing of resources and less for each."

Those parental "resources" are not likely related to the material goods or money allotted to the eldest child, but the amount of time parents can spend on such things as reading and playing.

But parental attention cannot be the sole explanation for the elder child phenomenon since the research showed only children are less intelligent on average than first-borns in larger families, he says.

"In fact ... it's quite clear that only children score lower than first children in two or three-child families," he says. "I'm not sure what the reasons for this are, but there have been (theories that) the older child gains from tutoring the younger children."

The only-child effect may be unique to Norway, where most affluent and socially stable families – those likely to raise more intelligent children – tend to have at least two or three offspring.

But even accounting for socio-economic differences, some of the IQ deficit still exists for only children, Kristensen says. Earlier research showed the same intelligence differences in female siblings, according to the Norwegian researcher.

Birth order expert Frank Sulloway, who wrote an analysis of the Norwegian work, says the 2.3-point IQ difference between first and second born children may appear modest, but could have significant consequences.

He said, for example, that such a point spread could easily make the difference between getting into a first-tier university or having to settle for second- best.

Sulloway, a visiting scholar with the Institute of Personality and Social Research at the University of California, Berkeley, believes the IQ advantage enjoyed by older siblings is rooted in their function within the family unit.

In particular, he says, their frequent role as babysitter and teacher to younger siblings builds a mindset that they are more responsible and intelligent than their brothers and sisters and translates into the elevated IQ score.

Sulloway called the Norwegian paper the "most important" done in the field in the past 70 years and estimated its sample size was at least 50 times bigger than the next largest sibling order study.

He also said it left the theory that the IQ advantage doesn't exist "dead as a doornail."

But Sulloway pointed out that the "elegantly designed" Norwegian research averages out IQ levels over an entire population and that younger siblings can and often do score higher than older ones in many families.

Friday, June 15

Ariel Atom

After last week's sermon illustration on how the car must be tuned to the engine... now this is a finely tuned, incredible car.

Wednesday, June 6

How the month has quickly flew by...

Exactly one more day till my sweetie return from her mission trip in China. And only 39 more days till I get to see her in Vancouver. :)

Thursday, May 31

The Gist

Date:
Saturday, June 9, 2007
Time:
8:00pm - 10:30pm
Location:
Richmond Hill Chinese Baptist Church

9670 Bayview Ave,Richmond Hill, ON

Wednesday, May 30

Could You Pass 8th Grade Science?

I dunno why I'm excited about this, but I pass Grade 8 Science...
You Passed 8th Grade Science

Congratulations, you got 8/8 correct!

Sunday, May 27

1 Down, 8 To Go

Congrats to Karen and Brian Fu on their wedding. Karen is the first in our high school group to go... man, we are late boomers. Well, I guess the flood gates has opened, just 8 more to go. Connie is next in July. Too bad I will not be in town for Connie and Greg's wedding. I'll be in Vancouver.

Sunday, May 6

Jenny arrived in Xining

I was ecstatic to receive an email from Jenny and from the team leader this morning. They only have a hour of internet per week (a commitment they made during their orientation) so I have taken over of providing updates for Jenny. :p

> Jenny's official trip blog can be found here
http://jenny-chinagp07.blogspot.com/

Te team arrived in Beijing on Friday and before boarding the train on Saturday they went to the temple of heaven.

According to Jenny, the train ride was fun. They got to meet some really cool people and did sing alongs! They sang English songs and then in return the locals sang their Tibetan or their ethnic songs. Lily and Phoebe, cute white girls attracting a lot of attention and everyone wants to take pictures with them. It is good to hear that they drove right into the cross-culture experience with the locals.

Saturday, May 5

Jenny Chu on the Chu Chu Train

Jenny and her China GP team are now on the 25hours train ride from Beijing to Xining in the province of Qinghai. They must be so tried from all the traveling and jetlag, only having arrived into China yesterday.

Do keep them in prayers.

Friday, May 4

The Summer is shaping up

I love God's plans... everything is beginning to fit together nicely. My Summer is slowly shaping up, and like a puzzle, every piece is falling into place.

Apr 29 - June 7 (Jenny away on missions in China)
May 16 - June 27 (Mondays and Wednesday Night): Summer school - Gospel Church & Culture
May 19 - May 2: Spring Camp
July 15 - Aug 8: Vancouver visit
Aug 9 - Aug 11: Willow Leadership Summit
Aug 13 - Aug 17: Arts and Sports Camp

The nice thing about the Leadership Summit being held on Aug 9 - 11 is that I can fly straight from Vancouver to Chicago and attend the conference live. There are Air Canada flights from YVR to ORD departing at 11:00p and arriving at 5:00a. That gives me 4 hours to travel to Willowcreek to attend the 9:00a conference. Nice. Now I can see my canceled Harmony Flights to be a blessing in disguise.

The Leadership Summit will be so cool!









Times Listed below are Central Time.
(Schedule is subject to change.)
Thurs, August 9, 2007
9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.
Fri, August 10, 2007
9:00 a.m. – 5:00 p.m.
Sat, August 11, 2007
9:00 a.m. – 12:00 p.m.
Session 1
Vision to Die For
Bill Hybels
Session 2
Tough Choices
One-on-One with Carly Fiorina
Session 3
The Heat of Responsibility
Floyd Flake
Session 4
The Sixth Sense of a Leader
Warren Bennis
Session 5
Your Move
Harvard Strategy Professor
Michael Porter
Session 6
Leading at the Highest Level
A Personal Conversation
with Colin Powell
Session 7
A Leader’s Greatest Fear
John Ortberg
Session 8
Living for the Greater Good
One-on-One with International
Filmmaker Richard Curtis
Session 9
Building Humanity
An Exclusive Interview with
President Jimmy Carter
Session 10
Whatever You Do, Inspire Me!
Bill Hybels

Lunch with the big guys

Another jam packed day, another productive day. This week has been crazy! I never knew there so much to do during the summer "break". Monday was a nice Sabbath. Tuesday, dim sum lunch with grandma. Wednesday, worked all day, meeting after dinner and tutor. Today, graduation rehearsal, work at church, and tutor.

The highlight of the day was surely lunch. Lunch with Kaarina, the dean of student life, Nelly, admin of Hudson Taylor Centre, Doreen, executive assistant to the provost, and provost Dr. Earl Davey. Lunch with the provost was intense. I had to be on my best behaviour. :P But from him, I learn so much about how upper levels of Tyndale runs.

Because of the parties present during lunch, at one point I felt that pulled in many directions. When they asked me what was my plans for the coming year, whether or not I'll be serving at the student council, I replied no and Kaarina gave me a frown. Then I suddenly felt the tension with when Nelly's eyes when with the prospect to recruit me to the Chinese student council. LOL. Oh, the fun of ministry. In the end I made my point clear that I wanted to focus on my congregation. But I'll still lend my helping hand to both council occasionally.

The most encouraging part of lunch was when Doreen asked about my trip to Vancouver in July, she asked me if I have family there. I said no but Kaarina jumped in and said "Not yet". Then Earl started sharing his experience when he was a missionary in Indonesia that the culture always uses the phrase "not yet". So much hope, I like it.

It turns out that Earl also have a passion for photography. Oh, we will have so much to talk about. :)

Thursday, May 3

Leaving on a Jet Plane (Jenny's China edition)

Flight: CA 992 (Air China)
Depart: Vancouver International Apt 3 May 13:00
Arrive: Beijing Capital Apt 4 May 15:00
Aircraft: 767 Stops: Non-Stop

Travel Time: 11hrs

Jenny is on the plane on the way to China as we speak. In another 10 hours, her team will arrive in Beijing, China. To be honest, I do not know exactly how I feel right now. Don't get me wrong, I am SO proud of her and SO excited for what God has to teach her. But bottom line, I do miss her. I have sent her off last Sunday and she had a 4 days long orientation with her team, so we only had minimal email contact over the past few days.

I believe this time alone is very good. You may think I sound ridiculous because I only see her twice a year anyways, and more time "apart" is good? LOL. To be honest, yeah! This gives me the time to think, reflect and pray about our relationship. Meanwhile it gives me the time to focus on my task here at home.

It is funny that exactly 11 months ago, the roles were reversed. Jenny and I were in Hong Kong, and I left Hong Kong for Bangkok and not knowing when I'll see her again. Oh, and look at how our relationship grow during our time apart. I was able to do when God planned for my on my mission trip, and Jenny was able to witness to her family in Hong Kong and China. We kept in contact through letters and blogs.

I am so proud of her. I know God is shaping her into the beautiful, young lady He had in His mind. And I cannot wait to meet this masterpiece of God when she returns. And the best part is that I'll get to see her in July. What else can I ask for? I am so blessed. God has already spoken to me in volumes over the past days, I am waiting with high expectations on what God has in store.http://jenny-chinagp07.blogspot.com/
Pray for the safety of their flight, and for rest and jet lag recovery. Also pray for strength in the Lord, and for the spiritual attacks. Susie Colby (the wife of one of the staff leader) has already fallen ill and had to miss the 4 days orientation.

God speed, Jenny, and serve him well.

Saturday, April 28

The Final Soiree

Thursday, April 5

Wednesday, March 28

A dream came true...

Seriously, I have dream of this in my dreams when I was in university. I should have developed it but now someone beat me to it.

Camera in a bag to make it waterproof.

Men, Prepare for battle...

The weather is getting warmer, the snow is melting away. It is that time of the year I remind my boys again, to prepare for battle...

Driving to school this morning, before turning onto Garnier St. that leads to Tyndale, I had to drive by St. Joseph's. This is the time of the year when all the catholic school girls dig out their skirts. It is ridiculous how they hike up their skirts, it sickens me. I ask myself why do they bother to put one on if the skirt does not cover anything at all!?!

My heart aches for all men who wants to be righteous. This is the time of the year where it seems like the world is out to get them. Bounce your eyes, men!

Sunday, March 25

My Back...

My back gave in on me again last night... I woke up in the middle of the night and I could not fall back to sleep for two hour. The pain was excruciating. It was a pain I've never felt before, it is just above the lumber region.

Over the past month, I've been hindered by the back problems.
But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us. We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.
~2 Cor. 4:7-9 TNIV
But with the all-surpassing power from god, I can be struck down, but not destroyed.